It has occurred to me that there are a lot of "less than common sense" people out there friend requesting people on Facebook, and then trying to chat with them and approach them in ways that are so far from reality it stuns the imagination. So Here is to the less than savvy Facebook friend requester.
Rules for Socially Savvy Friend Requesting
1.) If you are going to friend request someone you have never met before in person, know their relationship status and RESPECT it!
There is nothing more irritating, annoying and down right stupid that some guy friend requesting a girl that has married on her "about me" and has posting on her page like,"out to dinner with Hubby", "on get away with Hubby" and having him start asking things like "how old are you< what do you do for a living, your hot". Really? Hint: if you do this, this would be why you are single!!!!
2.) Take a Hint. If for some reason you are unable to go thru the natural process to see the relationship status and realize they are not available then you need to learn to take a hint. So when you ask the question what are you doing, and they answer, " working"…..that is code for "are you kidding me??? you could not read my status and see i am in a relationship???? So not talking to you!
3.) If you have totally missed both 1 & 2 you really want to pick up on #3 or you will get blocked. This is simply to be a normal humane being and say " have a nice night" when they come back with a detailed message about being in a relationship. If you do not want to be talked about on Facebook as "one of those freaks" learn to understand English and take the less than subtle hints. Or you will be considered just as bad as small pox!
Sincerely, So freaking tired of lazy, freko guys messaging me.